When Love dies...

Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone he/she loves so much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again. But sometimes, lost love is a love gone forever. No amount of hope can bring back to life a relationship that just died a natural death.

Set yourself free, let your heart spread its wings, and fly. Remember, it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights, but still, it will not rain forever. One day, the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of branches where you can find rest. One of these is where you will build your nest and start over again. It’s never too late. You may find love and lose it but, WHEN LOVE DIES, YOU NEVER DIE WITH IT.

You cannot be a redeemer all your life. The perfect way to evaluate a relationship is through the test of fire. You cannot be sober with your mistake forever. We all fall and make wrong decisions, but our blunders are not meant to bury us deep in misery but to teach us the valued lessons of life. Loving is always a learning process... with love we learn how to CARE AND SACRIFICE. We learn to SHARE AND REACH OUT. We learn to be UNSELFISH AND GIVE MORE THAN WE CAN. Then, when everything doesn’t end well, we learn how it feels like to fall and get hurt.

But learning doesn’t have to end there. After our fall, we strive to get back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that LIFE DOESN’T END WHERE OUR HEARTACHES BEGIN. THERE'S NO FUTURE FOR A RELATIONSHIP OF LIES AND SELFISHNESS. It is true, there is life in love. But, there can still be life even after losing love if you leave the past behind and let your heart heal, and give you the chance to find yourself again.

The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its beginning but in its consistency. Make a choice, not on impulse but a decision based on a healthy balance of mind and heart. Let us always remember that…" HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A MATTER OF CHOICE".

You don’t have to forget someone you love, what you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. You would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.

Moving on...

Question: Is it really possible for us to forget a person or a part of our life completely? As in amnesia type of forgetting? Can we erase part of our past and not look back? Every time we are faced with heartache or make a major "boo-boo" in our life the most common advice we get is to forget about it and move on...

But is the human mind capable of forgetting something that caused us the deepest pain in our lives?

If so, moving on would be as easy as snapping our fingers, the problem is we always equate moving on with forgetting, the irony... how can we move on if we forget? You move on from what?

To move on is to accept that things are not the way you want them to be... so what if you've been praying for it all your life? Maybe it was not meant to be! Maybe the oracles of destiny have other things planned for you...

You just need to accept that once in your life (or for the nth time) you succumb to stupidity and made a mistake, that you are not perfect, that you are only human. It might have caused you pain and gallons of tears but it is not the end for you, it is not the end of the world... you just learn how to be careful and be cautious next time. so, what if you scraped your knee even your face, stand up, and walk with your head up, a lot are more stupid than you; they are those who stay down and pity themselves, they are those who missed your worth. 

Believe in the law of Karma, you need not get even yourself fate will definitely send somebody to do that for you!