Anyone
who has gone through the agony of losing someone he/she loves so much will
still wish against all odds to have that love back again. But sometimes, lost
love is a love gone forever. No amount of hope can bring back to life a
relationship that just died a natural death.
Set yourself free, let your heart spread its wings, and fly.
Remember, it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights, but still, it will not
rain forever. One day, the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of
branches where you can find rest. One of these is where you will build your
nest and start over again. It’s never too late. You may find love and lose it
but, WHEN LOVE DIES, YOU NEVER DIE WITH
IT.
You cannot be a redeemer all your life. The perfect way to evaluate a
relationship is through the test of fire. You cannot be sober with your
mistake forever. We all fall and make wrong decisions,
but our blunders are not meant to bury us deep in misery but to teach us the
valued lessons of life. Loving is always a learning process... with love we
learn how to CARE AND SACRIFICE. We learn to SHARE AND REACH OUT. We learn to
be UNSELFISH AND GIVE MORE THAN WE CAN. Then, when everything doesn’t end well,
we learn how it feels like to fall and get hurt.
But
learning doesn’t have to end there. After our fall, we strive to get back on
our feet and move on. This is where we learn that LIFE DOESN’T END WHERE OUR
HEARTACHES BEGIN. THERE'S NO FUTURE FOR A RELATIONSHIP OF LIES AND SELFISHNESS. It is true, there is life in love. But, there can still be life even after losing
love if you leave the past behind and let your heart heal, and give you the
chance to find yourself again.
The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its
beginning but in its consistency. Make a choice,
not on impulse but a decision based on a healthy balance of mind and heart. Let
us always remember that…" HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A MATTER OF
CHOICE".
You don’t have to forget someone you love, what you need to
learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for
yourself. You would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone
more deserving.